YOU NEED GOD ASSISTANCE
There are times in you life when things around you are working in the negative direction after you have done all you can to put them right. All you need to do is to seek the face of God concerning the matter. You may even need to embark on retreat, preferably to the camp to enable you concentrate on the matter. There are some situations in your life which requires absolute concentration to commune with God. Some of these cases are so stubborn that prayers alone may not be able to tackle them until fasting is added to it.
Mark 9:29 “And he said unto them, this kind can come forth by nothing, but by prayer and fasting.”
Things you can handle on your own, does not need God's attention. But the ones that are beyond you, should be handed over to God for help. People who are faced with persisting afflictions that deferred medical solutions. Women trusting God for the fruits of the womb and Singles trusting God for divine marital connection should be able to understand that they cannot provide answers to these requests because these challenges are beyond their abilities, therefore God’s intervention is needed through prayer and fasting to break the forces behind them.
TIPS FOR THE MONTH
1. Always open the door of your heart for dating no matter how discouraged you are
2. Faith eliminates fear (When you have faith, it makes you stronger and positive towards that particular thing you are expecting from God. When you believe it, you will receive it
3. Make a list of what you want in your partner (i.e. let your list be relevant)
4. Do not dwell on your past negative relationship, if you have any, because it can hinders you from entering another relationship
5. Do not be desperate in your first date out with a guy
6. Wait for him to call after a first day out.
Laura Doyle – The author of “The Surrendered Single” said in her book that singles should cultivate the following habits if they really want to have a fulfilling relationship.
1. She must acknowledge her desire to attract and marry a man who's right for her
2. Lets go of the idea of a perfect man or woman
3. Receives compliments, gifts, help and dates graciously whenever possible
4. He or she should take responsibility for and focus on his or her own happiness and fulfillment
5. The woman should relinquishes control of the pace of the courtship
6. The woman should strive to be vulnerable
7. They should honoured the desire to be married by ending dead-end relationships
8. The woman should check for safety before she risks herself physically or emotionally
