QUESTION:

Kevin 48: Bisi 39

My name is Bisi.  I reside in Nigeria with my family.  I have been married to Kevin for the past 12 years.  We are blessed with 3 girls and 2 boys.  I have been enjoying a fulfilling intimacy with my husband, until recently when his attitueds changed towards me.  When I asked why? He simply replied "You have been depriving me of your body".  The problem was that my husband loved using his tongue all over my bottom and I was not comfortable with it so iI rejected it.  This issue has afftected our sexual lives, I did not know what to do, I loved my husband so much and was not ready to loose him for anything in the world.  A friend of mine gave me your email address (laura@choicehome-ng.org) which I used in mailing you.

 

Bisi K.Johnson

Nigeria

 

ANSWER:

Bisi I want to thank God for your life and also for your sincerity.  If you love your husband so much, please do not deny him access to any part of your body.  First and foremost, let him know that you do not like it.  But if that is what makes him fulfilled sexually and he is insisting on it, please try it with him to see if you will enjoy it too.  It may be a new discovery for him and you may be surprised at the pleasure you may derive from it.  Secondly, always put yourself in his position.  Learn to treat your spouse as if you are the person in question. Hoping to hear from you soonest. LAURA.

 

FEEDBACK:

God will bless you Laura for that piece of advice.  I tried it and you can't believe the pleasure I got from it.  At first, it was irritating but I decided to follow your advice in order to sustain my marriage.  I discovered it was even the fastest way of turning me on.  Once again, I say thank you for helping to restore our intimacy back to what it used to be.

 

Bisi K. Johnson

Nigeira.